one of the touching part in the book:

No one gets to take their possessions with them when they die. I have yet to see a moving van following a hearse to a funeral. At the end of the day, the only thing we can take with us are our memories of all those great life experiences that add meaning to our lives. Given this, I would rather spent my days doing things that will leave me happy memories than collecting possessions.

I have discovered that my best memories come from life's simplest things: the day my daughter, Bianca learned to walk; my son, Colby's first Christmas concert (where he spent more time waving to his proud dad in the audience than singing the assigned song); the day our family played soccer in the rain; and the evening we barbecued hot dogs under the full harvest moon.



Dale Carnegie wrote, " One of the most tragic thing I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blowing outside our window today". Have the wisdom to savor the simple things. The wonderful memories that they bring will add more value to your life than any of the material toys we spend so much life energy pursuing. As Emma Goldman noted, " I'd rather have roses on my table than diamonds on my neck."

yesterday brought this book at Kinokuniya, at first the cover never impress me..huhuhu..but the book being locate at the Highlight section..as i browse tru i could ' make my self stop from reading it! and really make me wanna cry..

so far i have read the half of the book and the book indeed the book that i really need right now!

will update here on the few content sooner..but this is for the start:-

When you where born, you cried while the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a way that when you die, the world cries while you rejoice

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updated:

i got the list of sub chapter title of the book in this website you can read here

and also i got the review on this book:

Robin S. Sharma is an acclaimed international guru who guides readers towards enlightenment . The success of his best seller The monk Who Sold His Ferrari is nothing less than sensational !


That book had a captivating, as well as a delightful story. When I was still under the spell of Sharma’s books, I started reading this book. This book does lay a tough task ahead of us !

“ Who will cry when you die “ sets about making us think hard as to how to manifest the fullness of our talents. It is not simple though, we know !
Robin Sharma calls this book life lessons which is ofcourse very apt. The title suggests that we should live such a life that the world cries when we die ! Who would’nt ask for that ? He gives simple solutions to what we think are complex problems. But I find that, the language and the way he puts them are simple, but to follow them is definitely complex.


The author has given not less than hundred points for us to follow to enrich our lives.At this rate, reading this book has to be a life long pursuit, if we want to follow atleast some of them. I personally feel, if we patiently read through the book completely, we are on step one already ! It needs a strong determination on our goal towards self improvement to think and climb on to the second step ! It is, in patches, similar to a moral science book , since it is full of “do’s” and “don’ts” in life !

But we can’t deny that even if we start practising a few of them to start with, there will be better balance,control and effectiveness in our daily lives. There is no doubt that this will be a pleasure for the people who interact with us ! So we start with the idea that “the pleasure of my improvement will be others’, not mine !” To think this way, is not easy either !

To start with,if we identify our calling & make it our way of life, our life starts changing for the better. We all want to be the person which we never are, ultimately ! I think I am going through this phase personally after all these years, in my life and hence I am able to appreciate this point better ! We struggle to establish an identity for ourselves throughout our life, but very often, only unsuccessfully ! Sharma suggests working hard at it, is worthy of the reward, we get in life.

A very interesting suggestion of R. Sharma is to take a “ worry break”, allotting a specific time every day, exclusively to brood over your difficulties. He says make a note of all your worries the whole day and wallow in your problems in the allotted time. He assures us that gradually we will decrease the time for this break and eventually this habit will be eliminated forever ! Sounds worth trying ! But there may be one problem – we will end up creating worries since we have allotted a time for that & we do not want to waste that time, not worrying ! So this suggestion has to be tried with special care !

Like Deepak Chopra, Sharma also suggests regularly spending time in communion with nature and silently witness the intelligence within every living thing. I personally follow this, since reading this book and find that it keeps me centred on my highest life priorities. This has made a difference in my life.

Sharma expects us to be mature enough to see troubles as blessings which teach us valuable lessons in life. It is rightly said that tough men last and tough times don’t ! I personally feel this trait cannot be cultivated, but we come to accept it only when life takes its toll on us, mercilessly, sometimes.

Yet another point which I liked very much in this book, is one I have been practising, ever since I attended my energy classes. Whenever we give away money, if we bless it and give, it comes back to us manyfold !This only proves the timeless truth that the hand that gives is the hand that gathers. To bless the money every time we give cash or cheque – does sound odd and funny, but even once you are proved right, you start practising it – who does not want money to come back, multiplied ?

Our respecting our own instincts – the voice within, is stressed by the author and rightly so. It helps us decide whether that thought or action is within or outside our “comfort zone” as we call it. I think this is one of the best suggestions given by the author & the morally strong sounding word “ conscience” is replaced by the layman’s word “ voice within” ! Now it looks within our reach!

If the book “ The monk who sold his ferrari” helped readers cope with the rat race of life, this book with its long list of lessons does make us wonder whether we can take up the challenge at all. But I am not one to give up easily & try I did my best ! Regular reading of the book and trying to incorporate atleast a few in my life have made my mind more full, and life more happy. The more I live, the harder I want to work and rejoice in life for its own sake.

Only then I would have been fully used up when I die and hopefully, people who know me will cry !

lately i felt like i m totally different from the old me
and also different from other people

this feeling make me think of an abnormal side of me
deep down... i accept who ever i am or will be...
but still worrying about the expectation of people around me

what wrong with being a different from other people?

are we suppose to live the same way, the same pattern
as what normal people do?

is it wrong to be different?

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At the end of this journey.. i finally find something

the people who really accept me for who ever i am

and the most preciously The One who always there for me for who ever i m!

why is that so?

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Allahhu ya Rahman
Allahhu ya Rahman
Allah.. Allah.. Allah.. Allah.. Allahu ya Rahman

berlalu waktu berlalu
sepi menghantar kembali padaMu
bersimpuh aku bersimpuh
dalam lelah hati memohon padaMu

di pintu kasihMu hati kan mengadu
di dalam gelapku memohon ampunMu
kasihani aku terangi jiwaku
sinari hidupku

dan berharap belas kasih
dan berharap maaf untuk
segala salah dan dosa dari hitam di langkahku
semoga engkau beri
setitik cahaya terang
sebelum masa hilang dari pandangan

Thank you Allah for your answer

Thank you Allah for your reply

Thank you Allah for your care

Thank you Allah for your love

Thank you Allah for your mercy

I m the one who forget my own promises

Thank you Allah for all the chances that you gave

I am so touch with your love

Please let me be the one who always repent

Please let me be the one who always remember you

Please let me be the one among your lovers

Please guide me whenever i lost

Please advise me whenever i wrong

Please guard me whenever syaitan influence me

Only with your love and forgiveness will set me free

Only You

Only You

Only You